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How will you be romantically attracted to someone if you don't even know who they are? How is demiromanticism different from falling in love with that person after you've known who they are? Or is it same thing? Isnt that the general feeling people have? Im so confused, i may be generalizing things based on my feelings. I may be assuming that everyone is demiromantic. - AceAnon12
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asexualadvice:

Love at first sight is a thing that happens. People go on dates and are romantically attracted to each other all the time. At least, I’m told that’s a thing that happens- I’m demiromantic, so I have no idea!

Check out my post “dating as a demiromantic" (or rather, not dating) as an example on a demiromantic perspective on relationships. Demiromanticism is about not experiencing romantic attraction until after a close, emotional connection has been formed. And that could take a really long time. Most people (typical "romantic" people) develop crushes immediately or soon after getting to know people. 

Being demiromantic is like- living your life in this aromantic state of mind and then very occasionally getting ambushed by romantic attraction for people you’re super close with.

-Becca/Southpaw

share your story on sexism in gaming!

cupcakearrow:

I’ve got a friend that wants to launch a non-profit org dedicated to educating on sexism in the gaming industry.

And, to start off with, they want to collect stories that women in gaming have about sexism, prejudice, or difficulties they’ve met because of their gender.

Stories collected will be anonymous (unless you request otherwise, I guess). Please reblog with your stories! (OR, if you’re uncomfortable reblogging, or want to be 100% anonymous, feel free to send me an ask or a submit and I’ll make sure they get passed along)

Thank you!

Speaking of my whole “considering people to date based on ability to provide foods” thing, when I woke up for work this morning, I found this tea that J made for me and I know I rarely talk about J on tumblr, but I had to share because it’s actually the sweetest and I cannot even~

Speaking of my whole “considering people to date based on ability to provide foods” thing, when I woke up for work this morning, I found this tea that J made for me and I know I rarely talk about J on tumblr, but I had to share because it’s actually the sweetest and I cannot even~

Okay so now without the gender binary lol. Most attractive singer of each gender :P
Anonymous

I FORGOT ABOUT THIS ASK. I’ve been busy and it kinda slipped past me, sorryyyyy~

Well, unfortunately, I don’t know any nonbinary singers. Which is an actual issue- if any of my followers do know, though, I’m kinda curious!

Actually, I really like Janelle Monae, but I’m not sure how she defines her gender! So I’m gonna go with Janelle for sorta nonbinary? And wow, I like- don’t really find most famous singers aesthetically attractive I just realized?? I’m gonna say John Barrowman for the guys ‘cause he does sing so it counts and he’s one of the few men I actually find aesthetically attractive. And for the ladies I’m gonna go with Tegan and Sara just because they’re Canadian and gaaaaay.

tastefullyoffensive:

Animals Waving Hello to You [boredpanda]

Previously: Perfectly Timed Dog Photos

alinomster:

nateswinehart:

Being good to each other is so important, guys.

plot twist

foxfamilyfeatures:

i dont know what my gender or orientation is i just like to be held gently by soft and kind people and i like to go under tables and i like to play video games and sometimes i t ake photos of unnecessary things 

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Aw thank youuuuuu. :3 

I don’t send anonymous  messages, but if I did, I’d send this to my dear followers~

I feel bad because I’ve been pretty busy the past few days and now that I actually have a job that’s gonna eat up all my nightly internet time, at least for now. Boo boo.

Anna: I feel like watching Corpse Bride now
Me: Why can't we watch Corpse Bride now?
Anna: Absolutely no reason!