Here’s a little “survey” for you to fill out for your personal use.
I’ve seen a few of these surveys floating around for sexually adventurous people, and they talk in depth about various sex acts—which is super cool; it gives a person a way to discuss their aw yeahs and no ways with their partner.
So, this is my asexual variation. It can obviously be used for any orientation, but I just designed it with aces in mind. Feedback is welcome—this can definitely evolve to suit the needs of people!
[Print friendly versions available, so let me know if you need one.]